An Absolute Cure For Loneliness

The Kingdom Light – Episode 1123

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We’ve probably all felt alone at some point in our lives. Perhaps a friend moved away, a spouse died, you got divorced, or your own shyness around people has kept you prisoner. Whatever your situation, today we’re going to look at an absolute cure for loneliness.

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If you’re like me, you probably expected things from your life that just never happened. When I was young, I figured I’d end up married, have kids, grandkids, the house, the car, etc. I thought that’s simply what happens. I never expected to get divorced twice, have no children, and face the reality of so many disappointments.

Most times, we get dealt completely different cards than what we expected. When those disappointments separate us from the people we thought would always be there, we can easily fall into loneliness and depression. The enemy tell you that you’re a failure, causing you to isolate yourself further.

This becomes a trap of self-pity that feeds on itself. Negative emotions start to set themselves up as the focal point of your life. Every day you wake up, and there it is, a heavy burden of sadness. It keeps you in a deep dark pit of despair.

[clip from The Princess Bride: “the pit of despair…”]

But there is an escape. There is a way out of this dark place. And you probably already know what I’m gonna say, right?

[clip from Infinity War: “what am I supposed to say, Jesus?”]

Yeah, I’m not ashamed to say it. Jesus is my constant companion. He’s the friend who sticks closer than a brother. I am never alone. He’s always there. That relationship is the foundation of my life. It’s what keeps me going.

Some people will scoff at this. It all sounds like a bunch of clichés. Real life is hard, and you can’t merely say a few magic words and fix it. I hear you. I get the hesitation to believe something that seems too good to be true. But I can tell you from experience, when it comes to life with Christ, it’s not only true, but it’s also too good to pass up.

I’ve heard the arguments, though. Come on, man. You can’t rely on some imaginary friend to defeat loneliness. You need REAL relationships with REAL people! Yep, but my real-life experience tells me that there’s nothing at all imaginary about my relationship with Jesus. It doesn’t GET any more REAL than this! And it’s amazing!

Understand, my life has not been all puppies and rainbows. I’ve had plenty of sorrows. Friends died. Close family members died. I’ve had 2 failed marriages. I was diagnosed with severe degenerative disc disease in my lower back, causing me chronic pain that I still live with today. I have major anxiety issues. Trust me, the list goes on and on.

[clip from Dumb and Dumber: “Man, you are one pathetic loser.”]

Nah, my life is glorious. No matter what comes my way, I never have to face any of it alone. Having a relationship with Jesus Christ is the smartest decision I ever made. He has never failed to see me through every situation. But it’s also important to have some good Christian friends to commune with.

Years ago, I talked about this very thing…

[clip from the GC, ep408]

The enemy would love to keep you isolated and cut off from any sources of joy and strength. It took me decades to learn how to spot his tricks. Another benefit of having that close relationship with Christ is, the more time I spend with Him, the more spiritual discernment He gives me. Do I still stumble? Do I still have tough times? Of course, and He’s always there to pick me up and teach me one valuable lesson after another.

I praise God that I finally reached a point where loneliness is simply not part of my life at all. I have the cure. His name is Jesus, and I take Him with me everywhere I go. You can have that same assurance, that same cure. You’ll find, just as I did, that having a relationship with the Creator automatically means loneliness gets kicked to the curb.

[clip from Naked Gun: “You’re outta here!”]

As for cultivating other friendships, be sure to take precautions. People who are also friends with Jesus are gonna be your best choices. And if you have friends who don’t know Him, introduce Jesus to them. Their response will be a good gage as to whether or not hanging out with them is a good idea. The sad fact is, there are a lot of folks who will only bring you down. Being close with God will help you figure that out – if you listen to Him.

Bottom line…a friendship with Jesus is the sure-fire way to beat loneliness for good. And He’ll never let you down.

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